學著快樂

現在的生活,讓你有幸福感嗎?
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人總是會因各式各樣的事情而生氣。
像是家長不理解孩子的所作所為,孩子無法明白父母的想法,於是誤會及紛爭就產生了。
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在親子間最常見的,是父母總為了孩子用電腦、上網,來和孩子爭吵,或許起因是擔憂孩子,不確定網路世界的各種資訊會不會給孩子帶來傷害。站在孩子的立場,是年輕世代的孩子正靠著網路來認識世界、來寫作業、學習外語,增加各種能力,增廣見聞。
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在爭執時,大家有沒有出現過越吵越無法有效溝通的經驗?造成這種狀況的因素,很可能是來自於生理。當腦部供血不足,腦子就像缺心眼一樣不好使,不好使就想不通了,想不通就發作。
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大家如果都有過這種經驗,就會發現生完氣之後,自己其實也不見得有多好受。該怎麼解決呢?解決之道,就在這次的共修之中喔!
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Do you feel happy with your current life?

People tend to get angry easily over different matters.
An example would be an argument between a child and his parents over a misunderstanding. Parents cannot understand why their child behave in a particular manner and the child does not know what his parents are thinking.

A more common cause of argument is the child’s use of computer and internet. Perhaps the parents worry that internet would be a bad influence on their child. However, from a child’s perspective, children in this generation rely on internet for news, information, do homework or even to learn a foreign language so as to broaden their horizons.

Have you had a similar experience and agree that the more you quarrel, the harder it is to communicate? This is due to insufficient blood being supplied to our brain. When this happens, our brain responds slower and cannot think logically. Thus, an argument ensues.

If you have had similar experience, you know that one does not feel good in the aftermath of anger. How do we resolve this? I will reveal the remedy on this Saturday’s online global group practice!

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Posted 8 months ago in OTHER